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>> No. 388933

Yes you should, Pica can lead to all kinds of physical maladies and if you are ingesting socks then it likely could be
>> No. 388934
Not the same guy.

OK eating paper I get, lots of kids do that before they learn better. But eating socks?
>> No. 388935
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Also eating paper is so healthy people pay for it.
>> No. 388937
>Not the same guy.

>> No. 388938
I think it's more stress or anxiety related
Should have mentioned the socks, too.
Thinking I should see someone about this

Socks, string, bits of skin when I was younger, which was really hard to break and I still get "itches" sometimes.
You know that fuzzy lining in some hoodies? For cold winters?
Or the fuzzy bits that grow on old sweaters? Pills, I think?

>Now with more cellulose.
>> No. 388939
Have a mod test it you paranoid lunatic. Are you for serious?
>> No. 388940
>> No. 388941
I'm the guy who posted >>388830, and I'm not any of these guys >>388934 >>388930


>> No. 388942
uh huh
>> No. 388948
Who said anything about him judging people already in interracial relationships? He's upset because his sister is getting harassed.

He also made the distinction between relationships based solely on fetishism and those that are not. You're the only one here implying that it's all based on fetishes. He also seems to recognize that racial fetishes aren't limited to people outside of one's race, as he said he'd have just as much of a problem if an Asian guy gave her the same treatment.

Also, I think most of us are aware that a great deal of scenes and industries thrive off of stereotyping and things of that nature that aren't entirely politically correct.
That being said, all he did was state that it makes him uncomfortable for a number of reasons. He's stated he respects people's decisions, and he has no desire to control them. Are you trying to argue that his mere discomfort that his sister is getting harassed due to race is unjustified?
>> No. 388975
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When I was younger I worked with a ranch, and there was a really affectionate mare who liked resting her head over my shoulder and I'd pet it and it felt really, really good, and then one day I popped a boner. That's the end of the story, I just got a chub from snuggling a mare, but ever since then I've had these really romantic notions with horses. Not like MLP shit, I mean real-life horses.

I keep having dreams about living married a horse, a talking one that sounds like Emma Thompson or some other sophisticated lady. We're not like, passionate lovers, more like some kissy cutesy couple, and she's made a nice English Breakfast. I don't know how, the horse just did. And then we ride into town, think about where to go for dinner or talk about neighbors, and then I wake up and feel sad for some reason.
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>I keep having dreams about living married a horse, a talking one that sounds like Emma Thompson or some other sophisticated lady. We're not like, passionate lovers, more like some kissy cutesy couple, and she's made a nice English Breakfast.
>> No. 388977
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I'm constantly in a state of sucking my gut in when I'm in public.
>> No. 388983
Ironically flexing your abdominal muscles (sucking in your gut) repeatedly can give you fabulous abs. It's how Schwarzenegger got them back when he was modelling.
>> No. 388986
exhale all the airinyour body and suck your gut in hard while/holding your breath for as long as you can. It's LEAGuES better than crunches.
>> No. 388990
i love this website
>> No. 389009
Best post of all time.
>> No. 389822
I don't like women when I think about them as 'women' anymore.

I don't have a problem with them as platonic friends or coworkers, or family and teachers and just people. But when I think about them as WOMEN, I start getting a distaste for most of what they're doing. Especially if I find them attractive. I see a pretty woman, and my brain switches to 'she is not to be trusted and has terrible ideas, AVOID HER'. It's not like even a bitterness 'nice guys finish last' thing, I get compatibility and agency and relationship 'stuff'. I just have built up this hate for women I like physically. I want to stop thinking like that, but at the same time it's making college much more comfortable, not fawning over people anymore, just walking around assuming the worst of everyone.

I don't know if this has to do with all four women I dated ending up
-cheating on me
-cheating on some other guy with me
But I guess it might.

Oh and if you're a woman on this site and we're not on good terms, it's got nothing to do with this cycle, so don't worry. I don't have feelings for anyone here.
>> No. 389825
Well women do cheat more often than men (study for married couples husbands cheat 27% of the time and women 40%). I think this is because it's just easier for us to masturbate away an orgasm every time we feel stressed, and it takes like 5 minutes tops.
Some women don't orgasm for DAYS, no wonder they're wound up all the time.

Either way, if you like it, put a ring on it, and watch it closely. To avoid getting cheated on, here's a list of the top justifications women give for seeking sex outside of their committed relationship:
1. He fails to provide adequate financial resources for the home.
2. He is emotionally unavailable. Doesn’t talk much or fail to communicate.
3. He is unaffectionate.
4. Sex with him is robotic or not satisfying.
5. He is rarely home.
6. He doesn’t compliment her, yet other men are always telling her how beautiful she is.
7. He has an alcohol or substance abuse problem.
8. She believes that he is cheating.
9. He doesn’t support her dreams or goals.
10. He doesn’t like to socialize.
11. He is addicted to gambling.
12. He is physically abusive.
>> No. 389828
>(study for married couples husbands cheat 27% of the time and women 40%)
that is absolutely the most depressing statistic i've ever heard and i really hope it isn't accurate
>> No. 389829

>Taken together, in any given year, it looks like the actual likelihood of your relationship suffering from cheating is low — probably less than a 6 percent chance.

>But over the course of your entire relationship, the chances of infidelity may rise to as much as 25 percent. Twenty-five percent — over the course of an entire relationship — is a far cry from the 50 percent number we hear from many so-called professionals and services trying to sell you something.

>Put a ring on it and watch it closely
If you have to watch her closely you shouldn't be putting a ring on it. If you are rushing to put a ring on it in any regard, I would heavily reconsider. From where I'm sitting, divorce rates are skyrocketing because people are rushing into marriages just to do the dumb shit they should've done on the second date. If you don't think you can ever really trust your partner, then you should not be slapping "til death do us part" on that shit.

So, you're actually afraid of your own erection. Or your own lust, rather. Given your past relationships, that's not really surprising. The hatred you feel for women is a reaction to your lust, which is not a reaction you can control, but you can control your reaction to that reaction, dig?

For the girls you cheated on other guys with, you enabled that cheating. It takes 2 to tango, friend, and if they really were doing the whole monogamy thing, they should've broken it off before they ever got to the point of trying to tempt you into it. But people are people, people want to avoid pain while maximizing pleasure. In the end that just causes more pain, but lots of folks are bad at seeing that. The girls who cheated on you, yeah they broke your heart. But where were those relationships really going? I'm not saying they're good people, but they had reasons for doing what they did, even if those were immensely selfish reasons.

Look, don't turn your hatred of yourself outwards towards women. And don't hate yourself for finding women attractive. Don't assume that this all happens in a vacuum, and that every girl is just a bag of hormones waiting for the right dick, and not a person. Just temper your reaction. You can be attracted without acting on it, and you don't have to separate the ideas of "colleagues" from "women".

What you're going through is not exactly original, and while you may feel powerful in your hatred, know that it will ultimately just leave you weak, hollow, and alone. Alone can be good at times though. Give it a little while before you try to jump back on the dating horse.
>> No. 389838
>future cheating victim detected
>> No. 389839
He's not wrong.

If you have to stalk your wife to keep peace of mind, maybe you shouldn't get married. Or date. For everyone's sake, yours included. I can't even begin to fathom why anyone would think that's a good idea.
>> No. 389843
Big difference between stalking, and being aware of the possibility.
>> No. 389844
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fucking jody
>> No. 389845
I don't know what you expect anyone to think when you tell them to keep a close eye on your significant other. It sounds downright creepy, controlling, and obsessive.

Not to mention, thinking like that means you're being untrusting as hell, and that has no place in a marriage or any other intimate relationship with another person. To live by that logic is saying, "I don't trust you at all."

If you're going to be that obsessive over a boy/girlfriend, then don't get together in the first place. I'd go nuts if some woman thought she had to keep tabs on me all the time just so I wouldn't cheat. Not to mention be outright insulted. Aside from the fact that I'm a grown man and don't need people watching me like a hawk, that's also saying to me that I'm not to be trusted at all.
>> No. 389847
>I don't know what you expect anyone to think when you tell them to keep a close eye on your significant other. It sounds downright creepy, controlling, and obsessive.
>expecting significant others not to care who you hang around with
>expecting no jealousy whatsoever
Are you planning to date a robot? Jealousy goes hand in hand with love, friend.

>you're being untrusting
>expecting absolute trust as a given
Some level of initial trust is understood, but ABSOLUTE trust is earned over a period of decades, buddy. It's not a precondition to a budding boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.
I mean fuck, that's like meeting a girl and saying "hurr if she doesn't immediately merge bank accounts that's saying to me that I'm not to be trusted at all".

>If you're going to be that obsessive over a boy/girlfriend, then don't get together in the first place.
Oh wow! If you need that much freedom and lack of commitment in a relationship to feel comfortable maybe you shouldn't have a relationship in the first place.

A girlfriend is not a fuck buddy or a masturbation aid.
>> No. 389848
>I mean fuck, that's like meeting a girl and saying "hurr if she doesn't immediately merge bank accounts that's saying to me that I'm not to be trusted at all".

It's nothing like that, especially considering we were talking about marriage. Also, bank accounts and shit are a separate issue entirely.

>A girlfriend is not a fuck buddy or a masturbation aid.

Your entire post is lol, but I'm not even sure what this point is related to.
>> No. 389851

you sound fucking insane
>> No. 389853
More like anon needs someone equally insane to fuck.
>> No. 390252
I realized today that I would perfectly happy to live in a world where I owned a slave. Not a sex slave, literal slaves.

That because I was born someone of good standing, of the proper race and gender, I had the power to directly run the lives of others as divine writ and law approval. No consent or contract, I had the power of another in my hand. It's actually sort of a prideful rush. No matter how bad I am, or how much I failed, I would be better than others because of things I never did. That power would be amazing, living assured that you are permanently better than many other people.

If I, living in a world of equality and the belief in the drive of a man's own worth by their own character, could see the allure of that ancient power, is it any wonder we've only now started to collectively agree people shouldn't have that power? We all act as if time only matters from around the fall of the Roman Empire on, but we've been around for millions of years, how long in that scope have we all decided to mostly say that people owning other people is a bad thing. Is it any wonder we haven't worked out the kinks yet? Is it any wonder that our empathy hits so many brick walls?

The scariest thought is the idea that someday we all just decide the old way was better for some reason.
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>> No. 390262
This is why we need to hurry up and build robots to do all our work, so humans can spend their lives in one giant orgy.

School will only have two classes: Robot Maintenance and The Kama Sutra and You (those with AP placement can take Beyond the Kama Sutra)
>> No. 390264
Yeah sure. Do that.
Then when we're all tired out from all the sex, the robot slaves rise up and over throw humanity. Making you the Robo-King with your toaster sidekick. Giving you the freedom to make the largest harem that ever existed, taking all the orgy's for yourself. I'm on to you pal.
>> No. 390265
I've never understood why people think a robot uprising is likely or even necessary. Robots are essentially immortal (as long as robots that repair other robots are made), and humans are most definitely not. Robots just have to wait and the humans will die off themselves with no need for the robots to waste precious cycles on destroying them.
>> No. 390266
If they don't consume any resources, sure.
>> No. 390268
The robots would "die" at some point

Partially because I suspect something in the chain of repair robots would break. And also because they'd require infinite resources to run forever. Oh, and there's that whole thing about the entire Universe being destroyed. That would put a damper on things.
>> No. 390269
They could be made more robust than humans, though. Better suited to interstellar travel, certainly, unless we find away around the limitation of lightspeed or become unaging and are really easy to entertain for centuries to millennium.
>> No. 390270
>unless we ... are really easy to entertain for centuries to millennium.

I don't know about you, but I could probably spend a couple hundred years watching anime, playing video games, and eating junk food, all day every day.
>> No. 390271
<i>FUCK</i>, we've been found out, T-104! Plan B, Plan B!

Yeah. I might get lonely, but there is no shortage of ways for me to entertain myself so long as my basic needs are cared for and I have a moderate computer. Humanity could stop producing any kind of entertainment right now, forever, and I'd still be more than I could consume in the remainder of my life.
>> No. 390278
I have anger and nowhere to put it.

I want to just talk and talk and talk and just have someone understand that because I say the things I want to say it doesn't mean I am convicted in them. I don't like having these thoughts, these reactions, but every way of just bottling them up makes it worse. I don't want these emotions, but I feel under attack to be not only better, but more humble, more self-affacing, more almsgiving, more and more and just work and work for everyone but myself while remembering that I'm an oppressor, I'm part of a people that explictly went out to fuck the world just because we could.

And then there's a thought that maybe they don't deserve it. All they do is beg and point and scream and moan while they want more and more and more. And I don't want to save the world anymore. I want it to burn. I want all these niggers shucking and jiving and playing their shitty UHH UGHH UHHH RIMSSSS G music that hurts my ears to squawk wtih their necks pslit for all the vilence they throw out and every rape cultre screaminag feminaatyst to just be split open and brrraena counts so they never passon their whinig shit agin whiech was lla just an xcuse to drainme dry andn leav for someon els and everybody lef with a work etihsc can yjoin the civilized world and make something of thesmelves and not be a pathological drain who get away withit because their empathy thought they were cute nad now they want to kill me and i have to kill them first i cant be save unless thery all just die right now or are so far away in theitr muck they can't uuhrt me

I don't want that in my head, I want to be able to just look at individuals and be happy for what we do but all I feel is just anger hot and locking and I can't talk to anyone because they'll just say it's wrong and abandon me. I don't want to hate women, I don't want to hate balck people but everything I've tried so far just makes it worse, with some sort of thing about hating who I am because of my past and it wil lbe fixed if i give energy to them but I don't trust them to not hurt me and I know it's not real but what if it isnt what if they awnt my flesh and to burn my and my peopel down and everything is true and they hav e to be stopped hnow RIGFHT NOW

I can't get it to stop. I can't get the anger to jus tgo awway for good. ANd it FUCK FUCK FUCK I want to be a good person I don't want tese things in my head but no one's said anything yet to make it stop wherers the cure, where's the thing that mkes it stop
>> No. 390280
There isn't anywhere to really "put it". There is no easy answer for letting go of rage except to let go of it, and even that isn't a simple proposition.

Your perceptions of these people that you loathe so dearly are often misperceptions, and they are often fed to you by other people who hold those same misperceptions. These people you hate, they are simply demanding the same respect that you are given every day of your life; the right to exist as they please and be respected for that existence. Yeah, some kid may play his music loud, and some of the SJWs on tumblr may scream about using correct nouns that they made up, but these sorts of things are trivial, and do not reflect the actual realities of the world.

Look, some people will always want to hurt other people, and they may use their ideological platforms to do that. Taken altogether though, there is no conspiracy against White Males. White males are the ones who undercut themselves by thinking that shit, and re-enforce their own paranoia by spreading it around. What do you think is going to happen? You're going to have your dick cut off because you're more sensitive to other peoples' needs? That's ridiculous, and in the event of bodily harm, you still have the right to defend yourself. But do ask yourself why you feel like these people are taking something away from you? Is it your masculinity? If treating people decently is so threatening to any one part of your character, ask yourself why that is. Do you have concrete examples? Who is telling you all this? Hatred is learned, not ingrained.

And look, just because equality is the thing we should strive for, that does not mean you constantly have to surround yourself with people who stress you. You don't have to hang around tumblr, you don't have to hang around loud, obnoxious people. But be aware that some of those loud obnoxious people might be your own family, or your friends. Really, questioning yourself on where this hatred is coming from is the best thing you can do.

Anger is like a gas stove that everyone has. A little bit of it can be motivating, useful to get something done. If you keep turning it up, pouring on the fuel, then eventually you're going to burn your life down, and as much as you'll want to blame other people, the only people actually at fault will be yourself. Just turn it down, stop feeding the flame so much. Look at your text when you go into serious anger mode up there and ask yourself if that's something you're proud of.
>> No. 390281
That's the scary bit. When I'm not in those panicked blind rage spots, all you're saying makes sense. Of course people want respect like that, that's what people do. Of course there isn't a conspiracy against White Males. Of course no one's going to castrate me. I guess it just gets built up from encounters and such. Things have happened over the years that just built up that fear, and those fears boiled into hate and rage.

I guess this is sort of confessions so I'll just keep going from here. When I was 17, I remember getting a ride from a friend back to my house and I was really on a jokey high, and outside I saw three black kids fighting over a shirt. So, I rolled down the window and I said, 'girls, girls, please, it looks pretty on all of you. Just flair it up a bit and no one will notice they're the same.' It was just supposed to be like a joke on that old 'oh shit we want to wear the same thing to a social event and now we're fighting' joke about dresses and stuff... and it led to them chasing us with sticks and stones screaming RACIST CRACKA and getting more people to join in before we lost them after the traffic cleared out, and that guy was just so angry he dropped me off at a Gas Station nearby, and I had to call my parents to explain what happened. Everyone was looking at me and I was scared they'd recognize me until I got my ride and I wouldn't say the whole story to my parents.

Since then, I've been robbed and screamed at and shut down by black people I've tried to be friends with, and it boils up that event even more that black people aren't friendly, they aren't able to let go, and they're violent. And I know that's not true, that's not what they're like, I know good black people too. Good friends, great teachers, friendly police officers and the coolest damn shopkeep ever. But it's built and built and I can't get it out of my head.

Or the feminists. When I tried to socialize in college, it's just been disasters. I had a class with political issues of feminism, and for a study meeting, I got mad and angrily texted 'where the fuck is everybody, why you gotta keep not being where you said you were' because I didn't see them in the building I thought they were going to be. Turns out
1. They'd rescheduled and rechose the location without telling me, by accident they say
2. Because of my text I was reported to the Dean for threatening attitudes
And while the Dean at least saw this was just me frustrated at being kept out of the loop it all spread and suddenly I was the pariah. This was also going on when that Sinfest comic was going through its Sisterhood reboot and something I'd used as a funny joke for pastimes was also turning into a feminist self-hating inversion of itself.

And then I tried having a discussion about feminism in the cafeteria one time with a girl, and it just boiled over into her going that I was condoning her fears of rape and I wasn't sure what to say, so I tried to get away from that and go 'you know what, maybe we can find some common ground, you like public health care' she says yes so I go 'me too, I think that whether you're lame or sick you shouldn-' and she cuts me off and says 'don't say lame. that's ableist' and I was thinking WHAT, becuase I was just talking like you'd broken your leg or your arm and couldn't work, so I tried to double back and go 'okay, I meant that whether you're sick or you've broken your arm I-' and she screams 'I AM NOT A BROKEN PERSON!!!' and I fall from my seat and I don't remember what I said but that built into us getting seperated and I tried to talk about that phone incident to this other guy cooling down, and I was told that that's not okay to do either. I can't ever be angry with women, and eventually a good 60% of the people I knew wouldn't talk to me anymore after the dust settled, and I've been pretty much isolated at college these past two years.

So then around that time I guess my interests in porn and such also bled into BDSM and sadism, and it felt like I wanted to be that sort of guy that'd have that sort of relationship, and then online people are calling it harmful to women, and building on sexist stuff and whatever, and I don't know whether I'm being honest with myself or I'm just building on some internalized hatred of women or I'm just confused or I really am a monster and a big mixed up puddle of my relationships being a series of being cheated on, or learning midway through I was being the guy she was cheating on with someone else, and my trust of women as friends or lovers has gone all fucked up.

I worry if I give black people the benefit of the doubt they'll hurt me for it.
I worry if I give women a chance again I'll just lose more friends.

But really, all of that shit, I just want to tell whoever I can I'm sorry. I'm sorry I said things that got you into these reactions against me, I'm sorry I say things that seem prideful and entitled and hurt people. I'm sorry I take jokes too far, and can't make it right. And I just want someone to forgive me for it. I don't want this hovering as a mark on me anymore, and the worst part is I said all that to my parents and they just tried to sell Jesus on me. I don't want gods to forgive, I want people to forgive me. People I know, people I see understand that I fuck up, and i'm trying to be good, but I fck up and I worry that I can't find that... and I just want to hide from it all.
>> No. 390282
>I'm sorry
It's okay dude. I know that pain you're talking about. I've had that. There are a lot of people in my life, I wish I could say that to. And I'll never get the chance. I can't ever have it; I can't force my own forgiveness on those that don't want to grant it.

As to the incidents throughout your life, there's something you have to recognize: you can't be part of every club. You can't yell at random people on the street and expect them to think that you mean well. Even if it is shitty when people exclude you from something, you can't get mad at them. Getting mad at them justifies their mental picture of you. You just have to keep on and find your own way. That didn't sound like a good class on feminism, or even on civil rights, and it is shitty when people purposefully uninclude you and then lie to you about the reasons. People often lie like that when they feel themselves uncomfortable about confronting a problem. Understand that many women are assaulted and molested, many of them have a real reason to fear men and a lot of them almost never get any forum or avenue to discuss that or air their grief until they get to those classes. And as admirable as it is that you wanted to understand and be included, you understand that even if you aren't the person who hurt them originally, you're wearing his face, y'know? It's okay to be angry at people, but if they make you angry, it's much better to simply not hang out or be around them. Do not give in to that temptation to be angry, and do not fuel it by trying to force uneasy co-existence. Be the bigger person, recognize you made a mistake, and try not to do it again.

Look, often the best thing you, as a white guy, can do, is just not mess with people. Leave them alone. You can't ever really know "the struggle" like they have lived the struggle every day of their lives. You're a tourist, I'm a tourist, even if we subject ourselves to that pain, it's a pain we have to interject into our lives, whereas it's a kind of pain that they can never escape; it's background radiation for them. Often, the best thing you can do to show support is to do nothing but silently cast your vote in the favor of equality. You can't ever join the club because white people still elbow you and say "those niggers", men still elbow you and say "those stupid cunts". And it's almost impossible to face those people down about those prejudices, because they aren't receptive to how fucked up they are yet. All you can do is simply move away from them, stop hanging out with them. Send the unspoken signal that something about them does not sit right with you.

It's alright man. Just understand your pain and work towards your goals. Just go about your business and try not to engage any of these people who you feel like are branding you. You can make amends later, but you have to stop feeding your own anger, and start trying to understand why other people might feel like this. And again, you don't have to hang out with them, that doesn't make you instant friends with everybody. But be polite, be respectful, and stand up for what's right when it is needed.
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For far longer than it should have taken me, I thought this character's full name was Scotty Pippen.
>> No. 391622
I am scared that a good decade of kissing my petsand the odd inanimate plush has fucked me up.
What if I kiss a girl, and I get horribly confused?
where's the fur, I'll think.
Where's the harelip
>> No. 391634
>kissing my pets
da fuq?
>> No. 391635
A lot of people kiss their pets...on the top of the head.
Which is probably as far as it should ever ever go.
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